Brand managers and marketers recreate brand image by renaming products, especially if their products receive unfavorable press. Sometimes companies reinvent themselves completely by simply changing their names. So, I’m thinking it’s time to re-brand Sleep Training.

Seriously, think of Sleep Training as a brand. What do you associate with that brand? Do you have any favorable associations with their products? Let’s face it, sleep training has had some bad press, especially from Attachment Parenting enthusiasts. Critics argue that sleep training is cruel, and bleary-eyed parents won’t even consider it because of the negative press. They hear about Sleep Training’s “Cry-it-Out” (aka CIO) method and often plug their ears. How could parents leave their babies to cry, alone in their cribs, because it is more convenient for them? Why would they buy those products? I agree, it sounds terribly cruel!

But what if we re-brand Sleep Training and call it something like Sleep Soothing or ???

We sleep trained both of our babies at about 6 months. Yes, it was hard and yes, there were tears (mostly mine), but it only took 3-4 days each, our babies were constantly assured we were there, and I guarantee there would have been more tears had we not done it. Ultimately our babies learned, through a process of soothing and cooing and shushing and reassuring, that falling asleep and waking up in the night is normal, and nothing to be scared of!!

If you teach your baby how to sleep, then s/he won’t be scared when they wake up and you’re not nursing or rocking or bouncing them. They’ll simply know that it’s normal, and roll over and go back to sleep, just like you do.


 


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02/01/2011 11:33pm

Amen, sister! I specialize in no-cry EST (early sleep teaching) for babies under 3-4 months, but also work with older babies, which inevitably involves some tears. I tell clients that the crying is like a snake shedding its skin. The crying is a side effect of shedding those old, negative habits and learning new, healthy ones. Love the post!

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I absolutely LOVE the idea of rebranding sleep training as Sleep Soothing or a similarly positive, parent- and baby-supportive moniker. While I believe it's always parents' prerogatives whether or not to pursue a specific baby-training tool or technique, I agree, Natalie, that sleep training has been cast in a sometimes villainous light and, as a result, been quickly crossed off some parents' lists, without fully understanding the gamut of techniques available AND the importance of finding ways to improve parents' sleep habits via those of our babies! I'm in sync with you on the importance of sleep to one and all. Here's my take on how sleep is an incredibly important topic for new parents, including and beyond the issue of sleep training: http://wp.me/pZuta-9d.

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MJ
04/02/2012 4:13am

Sleep training is the dumbest thing ever. This is a baby we are talking about not a 17 year old boy. Babies should be sleeping next to their moms and nursing throughout the night.

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04/04/2012 8:31am

Hi MJ. Thanks for your comment, I hear you, and you're certainly entitled to your opinions. I politely disagree that any mom "should" or "shouldn't" do anything other than causing intentional harm or any form of child abuse, and that judgements against women for any choice they make is unfair. What about moms who can't breastfeed, moms who suffer from severe PPD, or moms and babies who don't actually sleep well together? Should mother and baby's sleep and health be sacrificed at all costs?

I'd like to invite you reserve your judgements about what other moms do, support them unconditionally regarding of race, religion or sleep beliefs, and focus more on what's best for you and your family.

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